ALL ABOUT DATING /SEX THAT U NEED TO KNOWN

  youths sexual attraction is felt both by boys and girls. It is normal and healthy that both boys and girls experience strong attraction to the opposite sex rather differently. It is important especially for teens to be aware of the difference in the way sexual attraction takes place and to be cautious. They  often hear their parents , elders , and teachers warn them about the special care they should take  in a girl-boy relationship.

   Sexual  thoughts are natural and attraction to the opposite sex is natural. Teens enjoy the company of members of the opposite sex. Girls and boys communicate and relate to each other in many ways. However, when they enjoy intimacy, it can lead to sexual arousal and sexual intercourse. An awareness of the difference in the way sexual attraction is felt if understood correctly, could help a boy and  girl to have healthy relations and avoid pit-falls and tragedy. If  a boy and girl behave in an irresponsible manner, the boy may choose freely to walk away, but the girl may be left literally holding the baby.

WHAT IS DATING?

        Dating is a social activity that is in the form of a boy-girl outing. It can be scary ,fun, exciting, and challenging, but you want it for the right reasons. There is no definite activity prescribed. It could be going to the movies, to a lunch, dinner or a walk. It gives teenagers and young adults an opportunity to develop stronger friendships, and so it perceived as an exciting activity.

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF DATING?

         The purpose of dating is  simple. It is getting to know someone and letting them get to know you , so that you can decide whether you are interested in building a stable relationship with him/her. Dating helps in the development of stronger relationship ties

 FORMS OF DATING

         There is one-one dating form and there is group dating.

Group dating is greatly recommended for teens. It takes a form of parties , picnics, and other group activities. This type of dating is very helpful to increase emotional maturity, build self-confidence and develop stable relationships. The one to one dating, can led to romantic involvement or may even increase pressure to indulge in sex, hence teens must avoid this type of dating.

OBSTACLES TO HEALTHY  DATING

      Risky behavior is a great obstacle to healthy dating. The behavior would include drunken driving, smoking cigarettes, taking drugs, hanging out too much idling, getting into fights and casual sex.

WHEN DATING NORMALLY STOPS

        Dating stops when a couple in a girl/boy relationship decides that they would like to share their lives together. They become serious in their relationship with  a view to marriage in future